Har ghar mein ek aurat hoti hai jo subah se shaam tak ghar sambhalti hai, sab ki pasand ka dhyan rakhti hai, bachon ki padhai, khana-pina, aur ghar ka har ek kaam bina kisi shikayat ke karti hai. Lekin jab baat paison ki aati hai, toh ek ghar chalane wali aurat ke paas apna paisa kyun nahi hota?
Society ka ek purana soch yeh hai ki “Mard kamaata hai, aur Aurat ghar chalati hai.” Par aaj bhi, jab ek homemaker itni mehnat karti hai, toh kya uska koi financial security nahi hona chahiye? Kya uske naam pe koi paisa hona galat hai?
1. Ghar Sambhalna Bhi Ek Full-Time Job Hai
Jab ek working professional office mein kaam karta hai, toh uske kaam ka ek fixed salary milta hai. Lekin ghar sambhalne wali aurat ka kaam bina kisi salary ke hota hai.
- Ek homemaker din ke 10-15 ghante kaam karti hai, lekin uske effort ka monetary value nahi hota.
- Agar koi outsider yeh kaam kare, toh uska fixed payment hota hai, par ghar ki aurat ke liye koi recognition nahi.
Phir bhi, ghar chalane wali aurat se yeh umeed ki jati hai ki wo apni har zaroorat ke liye kisi aur par dependent rahe.
2. Paison Par Control Sirf Kamane Wale Ka Kyun?
Bharat me zyada tar households me financial control sirf kamane wale ke paas hota hai. Housewife ke liye yeh soch banayi gayi hai ki “Paisa husband kama raha hai, toh uska control bhi uske haath me hona chahiye.”
Lekin sochne wali baat yeh hai:
- Agar ek homemaker ghar ka dhyan na rakhe, toh kya ek working husband office me focus kar payega?
- Ek ghar chalane wali aurat bina kisi salary ke ek aisi service de rahi hai jo kisi bhi naukri se kam nahi.
Fir bhi, usko financial decisions ka haq nahi diya jata.
3. Kya Housewife Ka Apna Bank Account Hona Chahiye?
Jee haan, ek homemaker ka apna bank account hona chahiye! Yeh sirf ek bank account nahi, balki uske self-respect ka ek bada hissa hai.
- Usko apni zarooraton ke liye kisi se poochne ki zaroorat nahi padegi.
- Emergency me uske paas financial backup hoga.
- Usko ek independent feeling milegi, jo self-confidence badhata hai.
Bahut se developed countries me homemakers ke liye ek fixed salary ya pension ka concept hai. India me bhi yeh system laane ki zaroorat hai.
4. Financial Independence Ka Matlab Sirf Kamaana Nahi
Bahut si auratein yeh sochti hain ki jab tak wo kama nahi rahi, tab tak unko paison ka haq nahi. Par yeh soch galat hai!
- Agar ek homemaker apne future ke liye savings aur investments kare, toh bhi yeh financial independence hai.
- Uske naam pe fixed deposits, gold investments, ya mutual funds hone chahiye.
- Pati ke saath milkar financial planning me hissa lena chahiye.
Agar aaj ek homemaker financial planning seekhti hai, toh kal kisi emergency me usko kisi aur par dependent hone ki zaroorat nahi hogi.
5. Ghar Ke Kaam Ka Bhi Ek Value Hai
Ek society tabhi badlegi jab hum homemakers ke kaam ko recognize karna shuru karenge.
- Agar koi working woman ghar ka kaam karne ke liye maid rakhti hai, toh us maid ka salary fix hota hai.
- Fir ek homemaker ka kaam free me kyun mana jata hai?
- Uska bhi ek financial value hona chahiye jo uske naam pe hona chahiye.
Conclusion: Ek Naya Soch – Ghar Sambhalna Bhi Ek Kaabil Kaam Hai
Agar ek homemaker ek din ke liye bhi apna kaam chhod de, toh pura ghar bikhar jata hai. Fir bhi, uska koi financial independence kyun nahi?
- Sabko yeh accept karna chahiye ki ghar chalana bhi ek full-time job hai.
- Housewife ke paas apna bank account, apni savings aur apne investments hone chahiye.
- Ghar ka budget banana sirf husband ka nahi, balki dono ka kaam hona chahiye.
Ek naya soch yeh hona chahiye ki ghar chalane wali aurat sirf “ghar ki Lakshmi” nahi, balki “ghar ki malik bhi ho sakti hai!”
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